Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Hostel etiquette, the unwritten rules.



I love staying in hostels. You get to know other travelers, you talk with them, go out together, and have fun. The hostel environment is open and friendly, and gives you the opportunity to meet other people. Sometimes you form friendships that last a life time.
Most of the travelers staying in hostels know how to behave. However, there is a lot of people that do not have any idea about hostel etiquette.
Here is a list of some of the things that you need to have into consideration when staying at a hostel dorm.

1.       Have consideration:
a.       Just because you are awake, doesn’t mean everybody else need to be awake.
b.      If you came into the dorm late at night, when everybody else is sleeping, don’t put on the lights. If you can’t see in the dark use a flashlight or the light from your phone. Now a day there are many apps for flash lights, so no excuses.
c.       Once again, if you came late, don’t speak loudly. Talk outside or whisper if you have something so important to say that it can’t wait till the next day.
d.      If you have an early flight and need to get up in the middle of the night or early morning, don’t start packing then. Have everything packed the night before. The toiletries and the last minute things that need packing, can be done in the hallway or the reception area.
I always pack the night before, and leave the clothes I will wear the next day out. Once I shower and get dress, I pack my toiletries in the hallway, as not to wake up anybody. It is not work at all to do it this way.
e.      If you need the alarm to wake you early, do not let it ring for 5 or 10 minutes, until you decide to get up, or do not press the snooze 20 times.
f.        There are step ladders on each bunk. There is no need to jump down, it makes a lot of noise and it shakes the floor, subsequently, shaking the ceiling in the room below.
2.       If you are a light sleeper:
a.       Do not book a hostel that is over a pub or bar. You know it will be noise till the wee hours of the night.
b.      Use earplugs.
c.       Don’t scream in the middle of the night about the noise. The rest of us are sleeping!
3.       Keep the kitchen clean. Wash the pots and pans as soon as you finish using them, so the next person can use them. And wash your dishes when you finish eating. And by washing I mean, use soap and water. Just rinsing is not washing.
4.       Take showers more often.
a.       Nobody likes to share a bunk bed with somebody that smells. Most hostels have free soap and shampoo in the showers, so use them. And if they don’t, soap doesn’t cost that much. So shower every day and wash your clothes. Now, on the same token, don’t spend two hours in the shower and don’t leave all your toiletries there either.
b.      Now, because you did your laundry, doesn’t mean that you can hung your clothes all over the place. Do not hung them on other people’s beds, or the shower or bathroom, or cover the radiator with them.  If there is not a hanging place, hang them in your bunk, and only in your bunk.
c.       Flush the toilet!!! Nobody wants to see what you did and left behind. And don’t throw toilet paper on the floor.
5.       Be polite.
a.       When you enter a room say hello. And if somebody says hello to you: answer them.
b.      Do not hung out with just your friends, talk to other people too.
c.       If you like to listen to music before you go to sleep, have in consideration that the whole dorm might not like your music, or they might not be able to sleep with it. Besides, once you fall sleep, who will turn your music off?
d.      Just because you have free internet, doesn’t mean it is just for you. Keep it short, 20 minutes will suffice.
6.       My pet peeves.
a.       If you are packing things in plastic bags, do them during the day or outside the room. There is nothing worse than the crinkle of the bags, especially when you are sleep. Nobody wants to wake up to that noise.
I pack all my shoes and many toiletries in plastic bags, but I always do them during the day, and even then they make a lot of noise.
b.      Before when I said to say hello and be friendly, I did not mean that if you hook up with somebody you have to do the deed in the dorm, that is a little too friendly for many of us. Nobody wants to see or listen to that. Get a private room, or if you can’t afford one, find a broom closet or go to the bathroom, but don’t take too long in there, somebody might want to use the toilet.
c.       I know many people like to talk on their cell phone a lot, however, we don’t want to hear all your conversations. Talk privately, go outside or talk softly.
d.      You came to Europe, Asia, or whatever country we happen to be,so do not spend the whole day texting, or on Facebook. GO OUT! See the country you are visiting! What is the point of coming here if you are going to spend the whole time on your cell or the internet?

It is all common sense. Be considerate, be polite, and adhere by the rules of the hostel.
Have a nice trip and let everybody else have a nice trip too.

Thursday, November 3, 2016

Thailand, a country in mourning.




When I heard that King Bhumibol Adulyadej passed away and that the country was going to be in mourning for one year, I did not know if I should go to Thailand anyway. But I already had my ticket and my mind was set on coming here, so I did.
And I am so glad I did.
Yes, the country is in mourning, and everybody dress in black or white. However, it is not because the government mandates it. It is because they are really mourning his passing away.
Everybody loved the king, and everybody it’s really sad about his demise.
People are coming from all over the country to the palace in Bangkok to pay their respects. They bring flowers and they pray and it is very touching to see the sorrow of the people.
The government and many private companies as well as many individuals have set up tents on a park across the palace, to feed the people coming to pay their respects.
I was there today and it was amazing. So much food, fruits, cakes, ice creams, and coffee, tea, juice and water.  But they also were offering haircuts, massages, first aid and checkups…. All by volunteers and free of charge.
I had a foot and leg massage, a chiropractic adjustment, and umbrella, all the food I could eat and tons of water.
What amazed me the most, was that the people were not there for “free food”, they were there to pay their respect. Of course they ate, but that was not the main purpose of being there.
Nevertheless, as human nature dictates, there were a few people that were taking all the food they could get and put it in bags to take home. However, I am glad to report that from the thousands of people there, maybe 10 of them took food. And to me that it’s amazing.
                There are many shrines all over town where people lay flowers and pray too.
                King Bhumibol Adulyadej (1927-2016) was the longest reigning monarch in history, having serve for 70 years. And everybody loved him.
Prince Maha Vajiralongkorn is next in line, however, he won’t be coronate until the one year mourning time is over.

One of the food stalls



Foot massage

Hair cuts

One of the shrines