Oh! How I hate the macho mentality!
I am doing a workaway at a cafe-restaurant in Crete, all the
tourist are very nice. However, the local men think that women are here to
serve them. They do not ask, they demand, and they expect you to serve them
with a smile. And of course, none of
them tip.
It is good that they don’t come that often, once a week is
more than enough for me. Only four of them come every day, and they don’t
complain, they eat whatever I give them.
Well, when I cook the tourist do not know if it is done
right or not. However, the local men know the Cretan way, so if I cook
something a little different, they let me know.
Like I told them more than once, I am not from here!!! So
they can eat what I cook or they can go someplace else.
Jaja… there is no
other place in town.
At least now the owner is back, so he is cooking, I just
serve. YEAH!!!
As long as I am bitching: everybody smokes inside.
Three more days and to Santorini I’ll go…
Update
Today there was a memorial service
at the church, from 8 AM to 10:30 AM.
After the service, everybody came
to the restaurant to eat and drink.
I had all the tables ready and the food
was in the refrigerator or on the counters. I thought I was so organized…
As soon as everybody arrived, the
men sat at the tables, and the women run into the kitchen.
They run here and there, serving the
men. They put the food on the tables, they served them. They made the coffee, they took care of
everything.
There were way too many women in
there, one on top of the other, taking care of everything. Obviously, I left
the kitchen as soon as they came and I saw what they were doing. After all, who
am I to tell them they cannot do it. The way I look at it, less work for me.
They even washed the dishes and
glasses and cleaned the kitchen, while I sat in the patio with a very nice man
from Norway. He was bicycling through the area and stopped to get a drink. Well,
he ate a lot, because they kept on feeding him too.
So, now I understand why the men
act the way they do.
They are not allowed to do
anything, it is the women job to serve them and take care of them.
And to top it all, some of the
women put some chairs in the kitchen and eat there. Incredible!